Making progress!

Marty has an immense desire to gain his independence.  He knows that there is a lot he doesn't know.  I would say that is progress.  Now, to teach him what he doesn't know :)

Yesterday I was making a boxed brownie mix.  I asked him if he wanted to come help.  At first he said no, then he said he wanted to come try on his own.  He carefully read every step.  If he missed a step, I would ask him to go back and re-read it.  In the end, we have brownies!

Marty also read my blog post here and was concerned with all the things that I had on my to do list.  He wanted to help me cross some of them off the list.  Over the past week we have made some awesome progress.  Here's the update:

  1. take Marty to the doctor - different day, different appointments
  2. get bids to pour a circle driveway
  3. landscape the front of house
  4. find/make a welcome post for the front door - In progress, I bought all the stuff
  5. clean out freezer in garage
  6. organize garage
  7. get toilet paper out of attic
  8. clean out my closet
  9. clean my bathroom
  10. install new fan in my bathroom
  11. clean out closet in perspective room
  12. call my sister (I totally missed her birthday)
  13. organize kitchen cabinets
  14. finish Christ picture in dining room - I need less rain so I can finish painting the frame
  15. stain back deck
  16. buy patio furniture - window shopped for it, can't find a set I like yet
  17. finish my cross-stitch - like this will every happen, I've been working on it for 2 years.
  18. vacuum rug in family room
  19. key in all my seasonal strategies at work
  20. call Todd to find carpet remnant for stairs
  21. buy hammock chairs for lower deck
  22. paint game room
  23. organize craft closet
  24. finish block letters
  25. get bids to finish Jessica's bathroom
  26. grocery shop - does this every come off the list?  I will grocery shop, just to come home and have the girls say, "mom, we are out of _________" for me to respond "why didn't you put it on the list"  There's always something to buy
  27. replace all batteries in smoke detectors
  28. wait, buy batteries for smoke detectors
  29. plan sharing time for the rest of March - planned 1 of the 2 remaining Sundays.
  30. have a GNO - went to relief society last night which just about counted.
  31. finish my book from my mentor - haven't even picked it up - FAIL!
  32. sleep - this is on my eternal to do list.  I do sleep every night, but always feel like I could use an additional 8-9 hours each night :(

See, Making GREAT progress on my list. Now I wish I could say that this list was comprehensive. This was just what was on my mind last week. I have mentally added several more things to the list, but will not really add them as I would be entirely too overwhelmed. I did have a dear friend tell me last night she has a plan to help me knock out a few more on this list. I nearly cried. I didn't add this list to the blog as a cry for help, really more for me to prioritize and understand what I'm trying to work through. It was very humbling to know that I have friends that want to help with these.

I had another friend send me a package as a reminder that I am never alone.  I  know I’ve said it before, but I am really grateful for the AWESOME friends and sisters in Christ that I am surrounded by.   It has helped strengthen my testimony in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  One of our baptism covenants is to ease one another’s burdens.  I have experienced this first hand and will be eternally grateful.

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