Not much to report on. Overall we are doing pretty good. We are finding our new normal. I discover everyday things that Marty doesn't remember. We learn new things together.
We had a minor meltdown last week. We pushed through it. Marty has decided he is jealous of time that I spend away from him. Whether it's work, primary, shopping, or other tasks, he misses me and wants to be by my side. That's not always feasible. I am grateful that we are both committed to our relationship and to our children. That makes pushing through the meltdowns much easier.
We had a very productive weekend. Several projects were clicked off with Marty as my assistant. He is wanting to be involved in everything I do. He watched me cut, sand, paint and assemble a cool wreath holder for the front door. (that's worthy of a blog post of it's own). He helped me clean off the front porch including washing and sweeping the porch. He helped me make bread, cinnamon croissants and nutella croissants. We loved spending time together.
This week is spring break. That means that I am spending all day in the office while the girls are with their dad. Addyson and Marty had a date today. I don't know all that they did but I know it involved lunch at Mimi's. That used to be a favorite of Marty's and now it's just okay. Overall, I don't think Marty likes to eat out. I suppose I'd better learn to be a better cook.
We are rapidly approaching 90 days since Marty's stroke. Crazy that it's been this long. Physically he is back to normal. Speech wise he's about 90%. Memory is probably 25% at best. I don't know that memory will every really come back. The rest of his recovery will be about re-learning. Hopefully within a year he will be able to fully function on his own. For now, we are pushing for the necessities and pray for the peripheral tasks to come later.
I don't know that I will ever be able to thank everyone or even come close to expressing the gratitude that has been in my heart through this process. I see people all around me with trials much more than mine that are giving aid to our family. I am so excited to be able to start serving others as well. What a beautiful charity circle the Lord has created.